Adulting 101; What I've Learnt

fullsizeoutput_ee4Being only 20 years old, I am relatively new to adulting. As well as being new to it, I am also not great at it. I do believe that, in some ways, I started adulating before my 18th birthday, though. It’s not like you suddenly wake up and you’re 18 and the universe is like ADULT!! COOK, CLEAN, PAY TAXES, FILE FOR A MORTGAGE! Or, at least, it wasn’t for me anyway.
Adulting is a bit weird though, and it proper throws you for a bit. When I first moved out I felt so incredibly weird. I didn’t think it would be a big deal because I cooked and stuff for myself anyway, but it really threw me off. So here’s so tips on how to *try* to keep up with adulting that I’ve acquired- I hope you find them helpful and, if not, humorous at least!
Always have an emergency bottle of dry shampoo
I cannot tell you how many times this has saved me! No one likes the feel of greasy hair; it makes me feel all around a bit crap and makes my self-confidence plummet. So, a SOS bottle of dry shampoo can easily save the day when you don’t have time to/ can’t be bothered to/ would rather watch Love Island than wash your hair. (Sleeping with your hair up in-between washes also helps a lot, yay!).
Certain branded/unbranded things are EXACTLY the same
In fact, my dad’s friend is the boss at a flour factory which literally produces an own-brand flour and a really expensive branded flour; they are literally the same recipe and everything. Some things are worth paying for, but others just aren’t!
Keep baby wipes in your car
What for? You may ask. Ev-er-y-thing.
Honestly, just trust me on this one; so handy.
Always get someone professional to look over any contract
It sounds silly and unnecessary, but contracts can sometimes land you in a little bit of trouble. I talk about this more in a recent post, but basically you can get free services from citizens advice or even some soliciting firms where they will be able to glance over a contract for you, and it is worth it.
Owning a house isn’t the be-all and end-all of life
Yes, sure, it’s great to get on the property ladder. However, sometimes you simply cannot afford to, or maybe would rather spend your money on other things, and that’s okay. Way too much emphasis is placed on house owning for a generation that mostly struggles on wages that aren’t great, try not to worry too much about it.
Have a first aid kit
I’m sure we’ve all taken the mess of our mum for this at *some* point in our lives, but honestly, just helpful. Nothing better than having supplies right there and then rather than having to venture out for them!
Everything happens when it’s supposed to happen
Everyone’s life stages are different. So don’t try and rush anything or compare yourself to others, just enjoy the stage you’re at right now.
There comes a point where every baby you see makes you broody
You won’t know why or how, it just happens. Probably hormones.
Exercise actually does make you feel better
Although you will probably hate to admit it because you so want your year 8 PE teacher to be wrong, it really does make you feel better! Even just stretching out your muscles in a morning can make a huge difference.
Sometimes you fall asleep in your makeup, and that’s okay
Don’t let anyone guilt trip you, it happens to the best of us! Even those beauty bloggers you look up to for having ‘perfect’ skin? I can guarantee you that they’ve fallen asleep with a full face at least once.
White bed sheets are a bad idea
Yes, they look great. Yes, they mean that you can instagram your smashed avocado on toast. But, they stain really easily and are an all-round nightmare practicality wise!
You’ll never be too old for mum’s (or nan’s, or dad’s, or whoever else’s) Sunday dinner
In fact, my nan is currently making me one right now and I cannot wait!
Zoflora is your best friend
Seriously, that stuff is AMAZING
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What are your top adulting tips? I’d love to know in the comments!
Love,
H x

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2 Comments

  1. Sarah Beal 5th August 2018 / 5:13 PM

    Thankyou for sharing this! It’s very much needed 🙂 x

  2. Kate 12th August 2018 / 3:54 PM

    I loooove this post and it cracks me up as it makes me think about what I thought ‘adulting’ was and like you, I thought it was going to be the big stuff – mortgages, house purchasing etc… I’ve learned a lot about how to ‘adult’ and I don’t half ignore my own advice most of the time, but one huge thing for me is being organised; it helps to ease anxiety; the idea of a Sunday well spent bringing a week of content means getting meals prepped, outfits ready and being ready with an early night!

    Great post and it gave me a good giggle, especially the tweet telling me not to grow up!

    Kate x
    http://www.findingkate.co

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